Thursday, August 27, 2020

7 Elul, 5780

Rabbi David N. Young

Doing the Easy Things and the Right Things


In this week’s Parashah, Ki Teitze, we read a variety of rules and laws. One that has always caught my attention is: “If, along the road, you chance upon a bird’s nest, in any tree or on the ground, with fledglings or eggs and the mother sitting over the fledglings or on the eggs, do not take the mother together with her young. Let the mother go, and take only the young, and the result will be that you will fare well and have a long life” (Deuteronomy 22:6-7).


Rashi points out that this is such an easy mitzvah to accomplish, and yet there is a stated reward “...you will fare well and have a long life.” If this easy mitzvah provides the reward of a good, long life, all the other, more difficult mitzvot should, too. He determines this must be the reward for doing any and all mitzvot--a good, long life.


Whenever we do good for another person, we are doing a mitzvah. Whenever we show others that we care, we are doing a mitzvah. When we make others feel good by doing good, we are living a good life. In turn, when we dedicate ourselves to a life of mitzvot, we will be remembered by all those whose lives we touched, and therefore our life will be long.


As we close out the first week of Elul 5780, may we rededicate ourselves to a life of doing good for others, dedicating ourselves to a life of mitzvot, and guaranteeing for ourselves good, long lives. 


Wednesday, August 26, 2020

6 Elul, 5780

 Rabbi Alan Litwak

We Each Have The Potential to Change

It is not the death of sinners that You seek, but that they should turn from their ways” - Unetaneh Tokef

God has given us a truly amazing gift.  Unlike the other members of the animal kingdom whose behavior is guided solely by instinct, humanity has the ability to change.  Our problem is that, so often, we place the onus of change on someone else - “It was his/her fault, so he/she needs to change” or “I need to make him/her see what she did.”  The Baal Shem Tov suggests that “sinners are mirrors.”  When we see faults in others, they are often reflections of our own faults or limitations.  Teshuvah is about changing ourselves; not others.  The month of Elul gives us the opportunity to look in the mirror and reflect on our own shortcomings. 


Tuesday, August 25, 2020

5 Elul, 5780

 Rabbi Michael Weinstein

A Time For Atonement


It is written in the sacred Books:


“The 30 days before Rosh Hashanah, the great judgment day when man is permitted to turn in Teshuvah, repentance- to what are they comparable? To the 30 days of grace which a Court grants a debtor in which to pay his debts and be freed of his creditors.


But the man who is reverent of the word of God begins to turn in Teshuvah the day before the eve of Rosh Chodesh, the New Moon, which is the Yom Kippur Katan, the minor day of atonement. Even those who do not follow the practice of honoring Rosh Chodesh make a Yom Kippur Katan on the eve of Rosh Chodesh Elul, to prepare their hearts for repentance” (Adapted from Mateh Efrayim).


In our upside down world of COVID-19, when all things that were consistent and expected are no longer, may our hearts continue to turn to God, as they have for generations.  May our souls be reunited with God, just as Moses, in laying his hands upon Joshua.  May our minds be cognizant of God ‘as a symbol before your eyes.’


B’chol l’vavcha, uv’chol naf’sh’cha, uv’chol m’odecha…


Monday, August 24, 2020

4 Elul, 5780

 Rabbi Charlie Cytron-Walker


“Adonai will strike you with an unknown illness, fever, and inflammation…” (Deut 28:22). This is just one curse in a huge list that we find in this week’s parashah, Ki Tavo. Right now, it’s hard not to feel as if we’ve all been cursed a little, but I’ve never been a fan of taking these curses literally. 

If you do well – God will bless you. If you don’t – curses galore! For some reason that notion makes a lot of people uncomfortable. At the same time it points to an important truth about life. What is the Torah teaching us? There are consequences to our actions. 

This time that we’re living through has shattered our norms and reminded us that there is only so much in life that we can control. Even so, our actions have consequences, meaning we do have an impact. Our words have an impact, our actions have an impact. The actions we could have taken, but did not – have an impact, too. We strive to have a positive impact. We hope we did.

The month of Elul is not only a time for reflection; it’s a time to take responsibility. Only by taking responsibility, acknowledging our successes, our missteps, and our shortcomings – claiming them – can we begin the process of teshuva, repentance.


Sunday, August 23, 2020

3 Elul, 5780

 Rabbi Harry Rosenfeld

This time of year we are called on to reflect back. So, I have.


With the pandemic, I haven't gotten a haircut or beard trim since mid-February. My hair is as long as it was back in the late 60's and '70's and my beard is longer still. Yes, most of my hair evaporated over the years. The remainder morphed from reddish brown to white.


Seeing my hair this long and this white, I have taken to comparing the me of then to the me of now. "Back in the day" I boycotted school to end a war. I lobbied for the ratification of the Equal Rights Amendment. I watched as the National Guard patrolled streets being consumed with protests against racism. I mourned the murder of four students at Kent State University by that same National Guard.


Today we are still at war.  We continue the fight for women’s rights.. We confront our personal racism and its pervasiveness in our communities. Federal forces are again being sent to put down anti-Racism protests.


And I reflect: Can we ever change? Yes, we can!


This season of reflection and repentance fills me with its message of hope. We each ask; Where do I continue to fall short and how do I move forward? How have I grown through the years and what have I learned that can make my community and my life better for all? If not now, when?


Friday, August 21, 2020

Elul Thoughts 5780

 The Hebrew month of Elul is the last month of the Jewish year. As such, it is considered a month of spiritual preparation for the High Holy Days. Special meditations are added to the daily service for some, known as S’lichot, or penitentiary prayers. (*The Saturday before Rosh Hashanah is also known as S’lichot, and it is used as a night of contemplation and study.) For several years, a group of Reform rabbis and educators has collaborated on a series of Elul Thoughts, shared with our congregations in a daily email, and accompanied by a daily Tweet. 


This year’s Elul Thoughts include contributions from:

Rabbi Heidi Cohen, Hanefesh, Orange County, CA

Rabbi Matthew Cohen, Congregation B’nai Israel, Galveston, TX

Rabbi Benjamin David, Adath Emanu-El, Mount Laurel, NJ

Rabbi Brad Levenberg, Temple Sinai, Atlanta, GA

Rabbi Eric Linder, Congregation Children of Israel, Athens, GA

Rabbi Alan E. Litwak, Temple Sinai, North Miami Beach, FL

Rabbi Larry Malinger, Temple Shalom, Aberdeen, NJ

Rabbi Nancy Rita Myers, Temple Beth David, Westminster, CA

Rabbi Harry Rosenfeld, Congregation Albert, Albuquerque, NM

Rabbi Benjamin Sharff, The Reform Temple of Rockland, Upper Nyack, NY

Rabbi Michael Sommer, Har-Shalom Synagogue, Northbrook, IL

Rabbi Charlie Cytron-Walker, Congregation Beth Israel, Colleyville, TX

Rabbi Michael Weinstein, Temple Israel, Tulsa, OK

Rabbi David N. Young, Congregation B’nai Tzedek, Fountain Valley, CA


You can follow any of us on Facebook or Twitter.


If you have missed any of these daily emails or want to go back and remember something from earlier in Elul, feel free to read them all at https://tinyurl.com/elulthoughts.


Elul 1-2, 5780/August 21-22, 2020

Welcome to Elul Thoughts 5780!


Every year a group of rabbis collaborates on a series of emails intended to get us ready for the High Holy Days. These are intended to be brief thoughts about the themes of the High Holy Days, because just like when we exercise we cannot jump in and grab the heaviest weights, so too when working on the self-improvement involved with the act of Teshuvah, we should not begin with the heaviness of Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. Our souls need time to warm up to this most sacred moment on the Jewish calendar.


In that light, we offer these Elul Thoughts to our congregations as a spiritual warm up to get us ready for the High Holy Days.


On Fridays, we give you a double portion of our Elul Thoughts so that we can all take a rest from our electronics on Shabbat. Enjoy!



Rabbi Alan Litwak

Moses In Isolation  

The High Holy Days are not two distinct holidays with services for us to attend and then return to our lives until next year.  The Yamim Nora’im - 10 Days of Awe - are part of a continuum that began on Shavuot when Moses ascends Mt. Sinai to receive the Torah.  Alone, he remains for 40 days, while the people grow restless and build a golden calf.  When Moses descends on the 17th of Tammuz and sees the wrongdoing, he smashes the tablets of the Ten Commandments.  He ascends for another 40 days to carve another set of tablets and ask God to pardon the people.  Moses returns to the people, but God does not grant forgiveness.  On the first day of Elul (today), Moses ascends the mountain a third time and remains for another 40 days.  After three attempts and 120 days of isolation, on the 10th of Tishrei - Yom Kippur - God grants forgiveness and Moses returns to the community.  

I do not see the coronavirus and months we have quarantined and physical-distanced as a punishment by God.  Yet, it has been a period of self-reflection.  The next 40 days is an opportunity to do even greater reflection - to approach the High Holy Days not as services to attend, but as a transformation to go through; not as a sprint, but a marathon; not as one big fix, but as a series of many tiny tikkunim/repairs to ourselves and our communities. 


Rabbi Michael Sommer

God put you here for a reason. The month of Elul is a reminder to focus on our reason for being and recenter as we prepare for the new year.


Wednesday, October 9, 2019

Politics and Judaism (Yom Kippur 5780)

“Don’t be political.”

“Stick to the Judaism. We’ll watch the news if we want politics.”

“You should really focus on the Jewish aspect of our lives and stay out of politics.”

These are actual quotes from emails I have gotten in just the last year when I have mentioned things in sermons that people deem as, in their words, “too political.” So often I am told by congregants, “Don’t talk politics.” I am asked to steer clear of political commentary and stick to Judaism. If I speak on a topic that breaches the boundaries with which people are comfortable, I know exactly who will be sending me emails over the next few days. Don’t talk politics, stick with Judaism.

Here’s the thing, though. Judaism is politics.

The word politics comes from the Greek politika, which means, “of, for, or relating to the people.” We usually use the word politics to mean governance, and policies made by those in power, whether we agree or disagree with them. But really politics is about the needs of the citizens. So when people ask me not to speak on politics, I hear them asking me to avoid addressing the concerns of the people.

That would not be the Jewish way.

The Talmud, in Pirkei Avot, reminds us of Hillel’s words, al tifrosh min hatzibur, “do not separate yourself from the community” (Pirkei Avot 2:5). This rather well-known teaching reminds us that as Jews we thrive in community. We seek out others, usually who are similar to us, to form groups living in society together. The instruction not to separate from it is a reminder that the affairs of the people are the concerns of all the people.

In the next chapter, Rabbi Chaninah teaches us to “pray for the welfare of the government, for were it not for the awe it inspires, a person would eat his neighbor alive” (ibid. 3:2). That’s a bit of a morbid way to put it, but Maimonides has a similar teaching. He writes that if a tiny business man tells a giant beggar to get out of his face, and he listens, you know that there is government in power. Knowing that there is a system concerned for the wellbeing of all people creates a mode of behavior that, in general, makes a city with a governing body a good place to live.

In Tractate Meilah, Rabbi Reuven ben Isterobeli is credited with thwarting laws the Romans tried to impose on the Jewish people that would forbid them to observe Shabbat and Brit Milah, which he did by disguising himself as a Roman and participating in their policy discussions. How did he disguise himself as a Roman? He cut his hair in the Komei style, which was how the Romans did it. This meant he had to shave the sides of his head (Meilah 17a). Shaving the sides of his head was a direct violation of the Biblical prohibition against shaving the corners of his head, but in order to participate in politics, they allowed him to shave. So participating in politics was so important that the rabbis allowed violation of certain commandments in order to have a voice in the discussion.

To repeat: it was permitted to violate a commandment to participate in politics.

On the other hand, Pirkei Avot also has Rav Shemayah’s dictum, “do not become a familiar friend of the government” (Pirkei Avot 1:10). This may seem contradictory to the instruction to bless the government, but really it is a warning to not become overly involved with the people who make up the government. The phrase for “do not become a familiar friend,” is lo titvada. Titvada shares its root with l’da’at, “to know.” This kind of knowing is exactly what I hope you think it is. Perhaps a more colloquial translation would be, “do not become bedfellows with the government.” So while we are instructed to bless our leaders, we should not become beholden to them. For any reason. It is not particular people to whom we should be aligned, but it is all people about whom we should be concerned. That is what politics really means, and that is what Judaism is all about.

As Jews we have no problem with arguing. We love it. The Talmud even gives examples of good arguments and bad arguments. The classic good argument, known as b’shem shamayim, “for the sake of Heaven,” is between Hillel and Shammai. Hillel and Shammai were turn-of-the-first-century rabbis who regularly had differing opinions regarding how to interpret Jewish law. Because they were arguing so that the Jewish people would be informed in all of their decisions, their arguments are categorized as b’shem shamayim. The classic bad argument is that of Korach, who argued with Aaron in the book of Numbers, asking who he was to be the priest when they were of the same blood, same family. Aren’t they all as good as Aaron and his sons, they asked. While it might have been a good point, Korach was arguing for the sake of self-promotion, not good for the community.

Lately, as Americans, we have confused politics with partisanship, and we have maintained loyalty to personalities and parties rather than to our nation. This is exactly what Rav Shemayah warns against. We are becoming too familiar with those in power. We are allying ourselves with people and with parties instead of slinging ourselves with the governing we have hired them to do. 

Of course, there are some exceptions.

Justin Amash is a Michigan congressman born in the US to Palestinian refugees. His father fled to America at 16, and America provided opportunities for his family that they would never have had in the Middle East. His parents were enthusiastic Republicans, and he was elected to congress as a Republican in 2011. In July this year, he left the Republican Party, and he now serves as the only Independent in the House of Representatives. In his words, “In recent years...I’ve become disenchanted with party politics and frightened by what I see from it. The two-party system has evolved into an existential threat to American principles and institutions.”

In other words, his motivation is the mitigation of the power of the duopoly that exists in the United States Government. A duopoly exists when an industry gets run by two behemoths. The one that dominated as it grew to power in the 80s was in the soda industry. Coke and Pepsi control 70% of the soda market, and as often as we might drink Dr. Pepper or A&W Root Beer, Coke and Pepsi dominate the supermarket aisles, soda machines, and convenience stores. 

The main difference, and the very problem between the soda industry and the government industry is that we have created a duopoly between Republicans and Democrats, and allowed them to control nearly 100% of the active market. There are independents like Justin Amash, but I could only find six senators and eight representatives in congress since 1970. That’s a total of thirteen people in almost 50 years, thirteen because Bernie Sanders is on both lists. Only three of the thirteen were elected as independents and remained independent throughout their terms.

Katherine Gehl, CEO of Wisconsin dairy company Gehl Foods, and Michael Porter, Harvard Business Economics Professor, recently published a Harvard Business School Report called, “Why Competition in the Politics Industry is Failing America.” Their report shows that current political parties have made it very hard to compete if people are not playing by their rules. It would be one thing if they were taking care of their customers (us), yet they are much better at creating revenue and jobs for itself. Customer satisfaction is at historic lows. Fewer than 25% of Americans say they are satisfied with how things are working. In terms of popularity, the government ranks below every industry, including cable TV, health care, and even airlines. For these industries, when customer satisfaction gets so low, we usually see new competitors or products like Netflix, Hulu, and Amazon Prime. In politics we do not see any new entrants except for Democrats and Republicans. Why? Because they work really well in one arena: colluding with each other to keep new parties out of government (Freakonomics, Season 8, Episode 10, "America's Hidden Duopoly").

Government today has become less about politics, the concerns of the people, and more about beating the opponent. They strengthen their stranglehold on the market by catering only to the extremes. All they have to do to win an election is show that they are this much less hated than the other person. The political industry that gets people elected runs independent of the issues they are supposed to be taking care of in our nation. This is not politics. This is partisanship.

What is worse is that the parties are the ones who set rules that benefit from the duopoly, not the people. In the American duopolistic model, polarization is a feature, not a bug. It is a feature created to cater to the wealthy, the special interests, the lobbyists, etc. As late as the 70s and 80s, landmark legislation was passed by both parties. The Social Security Act of 1935 had 90% Democratic support, and 75% Republican. The Civil Rights Act of 1964 had 60% of Democrats supporting it, and 75% of Republicans. Today, landmark legislation can only pass if the party pushing it through has enough votes to carry it by themselves. The Affordable Care Act passed in 2010 with 0% Republican votes. Trump’s 2018 tax reform bill passed with 0% Democrat votes (ibid).

Why is it that this is happening more and more as we tread this path in the life of American politics? Because we are losing sight of the other in order to try to promote our own agenda. Because we are paying scant heed to the good of the community in order to make offerings to the cult of personality. Because on the rare occasions when we do try argue b’shem shamayim, we use logical fallacies instead of providing counterpoints. Because we give all the attention to those who would insult their political rivals rather than engage with them.

Gehl and Porter suggest a way out of this spiral of social destruction. Part of their plan includes non-partisan, single-ballot primaries in which all candidates for office would be on one ballot, with the top four vote-getters advancing to the general election. This would be followed by ranked choice voting. We would vote for these four candidates in order of preference, ranking them one through four. If no candidate gets more than 50% of the votes, the lowest ranked candidate is dropped, and those votes are re-allocated to the voters’ second choice until one candidate reaches over 50% (ibid).

As unlikely as it would be for their solution to come to fruition, their idea would give a candidate the need to appeal to a larger group of voters. They would have to hope that they could garner the second choice of voters who would not choose them first. This would require them to talk about the issues instead of just talking at each other. It would require real care about the good of the people, the politics, and not just allegiance to partisanship.

In today’s Torah reading we are commanded by God to choose. It says, hachayim v’hamavet natati lefanecha habrachah v’haklalah; uvacharta bachayim l’ma’an t’chiyeh: “I have set before you life and death, blessing and curse. Choose life, that you will live.” The idea of choosing good over evil, blessing over curse, and life over death sounds easy. The problem is, as I have mentioned many times, these choices are never labeled. Like being in the voting booth, we usually make our decisions based on subtle distinctions. This choice may be slightly less bad, and this choice may be slightly more acceptable. And what is good for us may be bad for the person next to us. Usually our decisions are way more important than Yanni or Laurel, and we saw how bothered everyone got over that.

It would be great if we had some sort of guide to help us make the subtle decisions. It would be wonderful if there was some text, something written down and cherished for generations that had instructions for how to tell the blessing from the curse. [LOOK AT THE TORAH] Oh, wait a minute!

In the Torah portion we read this afternoon, we will hear the holiness code. It begins with God telling Moses to tell the Israelites that they should be holy because God is holy. Let’s be honest, that seems like a tall order at first. It almost feels impossible to make our choices from this morning based on God’s holiness. But then Moses breaks it down for the Israelites. What does being holy actually mean? Simple things at first. Honor your parents, keep Shabbat, don’t steal, don’t worship idols, make proper sacrifices, don’t harvest your field’s corners. Then it gets into bigger social issues. “Do not curse the deaf nor place a stumbling block before the blind.” Judge fairly. Do not spread slander. Respect our elders. Be honest in judgment. Treat strangers as if they are already citizens, because we were strangers. If that doesn’t sound like a political platform, I don’t know what does.

Of course, we could talk about any one of these statements for hours, but I am just giving you the straight text today. Right out of the Torah: Judge fairly. Do not spread slander. Respect our elders. Be honest in judgment. Treat strangers as if they are already citizens, because we were strangers.

Striving for holiness means that holiness should imbue every aspect of our life. When we are here in the sanctuary or at home. Whether we are at work or driving on the highway. Whether we are shopping or having dinner with friends and family. Whether it is Yom Kippur, the holiest day of the Jewish year, or election day. We are commanded to be holy, and we can demand that holiness from everyone, from the people we lead to those who lead us. We should demand it from our own leaders.

Our American duopoly is far from holy, and it is getting farther and farther by the minute. Every negative ad, every bit of mud slung, every tweet brings us out of the holy and into the profane. When we say nothing about it, we are giving it permission to grow and thrive, to infect our political system and our daily lives. Judaism permits us—or rather it commands us—to engage in the welfare of the people. It commands us to be politically active, and to do so in a manner that shows our love for our neighbor as well as for our nation.

Justin Amash, Katherine Gehl, and Michael Porter get it. There are current political candidates who get it. There are plenty of politicians and candidates who do not get it. We are surely stuck with the current system of gerrymandered electoral districts for the foreseeable future, but we still have the obligation to vote, and to participate in the political process—without becoming bedfellows with any person or party, and without insulting or scorning those who disagree with us. Being holy means we argue b’shem shamayim, for the sake of Heaven and for the good of the people. Being holy means we treat our neighbors with respect, no matter their political leanings. This is our mandate, direct from our sacred texts. 


Judaism IS politics. Politics should be holiness. It is up to us to take part—to write to our senators and representatives; to speak out when we witness the injustices of the current system; to blow the whistle on lashon hara from our leaders; to let them know that we will only support those who strive to be holy, for we are holy.